(Nasiha) - Slandering and covering the faults of your
brother
A friend asked me if he had done
the right thing and explained, that brother X was asking if brother Y was an
alcoholic, and he said I’ve never seen him drink. I said he said the right
thing but then he said that brother Z said who him why are you lying you’re
sinful for that! I said No you did the best act in that situation and went on
to explain why. Its says in our tradition if you
cover the faults of your brother Allah will cover your faults on the Day of
Judgment. As for one of his names is As-Sattar – the One who covers or hides.
By covering the faults of your brother your not exposing his short comings and
weakness to others. Which can be shameful for him/her, in also tradition it
also says find 70 excuses for your brother. Like saying maybe I heard
him wrong, maybe I said something to upset him or get him anger that’s why him
reacting like that. Maybe its why fault, maybe I’ve miss understood something?
Maybe his just having a bad day, maybe his under a lot of pressure and
problems, maybe he does know how to behaviour or wasn’t taught properly and so
forth Etc.
Understanding those two traditions
one arrives at the understanding, that maybe by helping your brother and being
merciful to him, Allah will send angels to help you and be merciful to you and
cover your faults.
As for the punishment of the fool
that was asking that is brother Y, what doesn’t concern you leave alone in a
tradition, unless you can benefit from it. I.e. are you asking because you want
to marry your sister to him? Then you can ask such questions, other then that
its not allowed.
Secret wisdom
This was for brother Y and brother
Z, Because were you there, at his room last night did you see him do
tauwba-repentance for drinking if he did and Allah excepted it, then he is
forgiven and for a punishment you will not die until you do that act of
disobedient for slandering the poor brother in his weakness. The brother is question went to hajj last year
and prays five times a day.
Ask your self would you like to
tell people about all the silly and stupid things you get up to into weakness
of your Nafs-whims and Shaytans
Waas-Waas-Whispering in the ear. No you
don’t and your ashamed of them we all are. Yet why it we need to talk about
others, because when we die we’ll be ask in the grave what did YOU do.? They
will asked in there grave bed. As they say you’ve made your bed now sleep in
it, know sleep is the twin sister of death. Also it says before you take the
twig (that a tiny piece of wood) of someone’s eye, that the log (large piece of wood) out your own eye.